Hey there my lovelies! Today we’re going to be talking about the five different languages. I am sure you have heard about the five love languages but might not know all the details about them. According to theories, each person has a different way to love others and be in a relationship. so want words of affirmation while others like their alone time! Let’s get started
1. ᗯOᖇᗪᔕ Oᖴ ᗩᖴᖴIᖇᗰᗩTIOᑎ
The first love language is words of affirmation or compliments, and hearing your partner tell you they love you. This person finds true value in the words you use, and how you choose to talk to them. They love compliments, lots of affirmation, and being real and honest. On the other hand, harsh words and mean comments cut deep to those who need encouragement. If your partner needs words of affirmation, make sure to tell them they are loved, thought about, and needed!
2. ᑫᑌᗩᒪITY TIᗰE
This love language is all about giving your partner your undivided attention. Opposite from the words of affirmation, talk is cheap and they don’t want words they want action. Making time for them and spending hours together is the key to their heart. It’s hurtful when you cancel plans, run late or ignore them all together. If your partner needs quality time, make sure to plan a date night once a week. Also planning trips to special places makes them feel loved and thought about. Another tip when spending quality time, make sure to put your phone down and on silent so your partner can have your undivided attention.
3. ᖇEᑕEIᐯIᑎG GIᖴTᔕ
This love language is exactly as it sounds. If this is your partners love language, then they want gifts, surprises and flowers to make them feel thought about and loved. Taking the time to pick out a special gift for them, wrap it or buy a sweet card is the key to their heart. Be careful with this love language, don’t get this confused with some who only want material items. You don’t have to spend a ton of money on this love language, there are lots of items that are inexpensive and will make your partner feel so happy. Items like flowers, desserts, stuffed animals and more!
4. ᗩᑕTᔕ Oᖴ ᔕEᖇᐯIᑕE
This is another love language where actions speak louder than words. This love language is all about appreciating your partner and knowing when to pitch in. With work, family time and especially the holidays your partner can tend to feel stressed. This is when you should step in for partner and help out. Do the dishes, vacuum the floor, pick them up some groceries, cook dinner etc. Little acts of services is the key to their heart. This shows your partner you care and understand they are busy.
5. ᑭᕼYᔕIᑕᗩᒪ TOᑌᑕᕼ
With this love language nothing speaks louder than their partners touch. The key to their heart is everyday physical connections. This means hugging them, kissing them, holding hands, playing with their hair etc. Now this doesn’t mean your partner wants to make out in public everyday or in private everyday. But reaching over in the car to grab their hand lets them know your in it together. They get instant gratification with a simple kiss or hug, touching your partner makes them feel safe and loved.